Audrey Mae SpencerSpencer Historical CemeteryHenry Straight / William Spencer Family Cemetery
Vaughn Historical CemeterySpencers of East Greenwich, RI
Life at Alpine Nursing Home
10 April 2004

Heather: Mother, I see you as a talker, but anyway what are you reading now?

Audrey: I’m trying to learn Desiderata. It is not easy.

10 April 2004

Heather: Mother, I agree. Desiderata is not an easy piece to learn.

Audrey: I look at these things and read them over and over. Crossing the Bar seems simple and clear versus Desiderata has a deep meaning.

You forget. Seems so I didn’t do too much, but when I get someone like you to put it all together. My head. Seems a lot.

(Explanation: Refers to looking at the Artistic Display Stand [WilsonJones Catalog Rack] of all her work.)

17 April 2004

Heather: What have you been doing?

Audrey: I’m sitting in my little chair (light weight transit wheelchair with four small wheels). I go everywhere. I play Bingo. I go to sewing, but it is not sewing. They should say bring your hammer and saw. We work on little pieces of wood and they call it sewing. (laughter) I feel very good. I’m doing so much. We play cards. It’s like Bridge. We are always playing something like Bingo.  Jean, Margie’s daughter, is back so she gets card games going.

17 April 2004

Heather: Have you seen Theo lately?

Audrey: I meet her in the hall. She is talkative and I’m not, so we get along fine.


17 April 2004

Heather: I remember you as being talkative.

Audrey: Oh!?


17 April 2004

Heather: Have you had visitors lately?

Audrey: Amber, she bops in every other thing. She loves to put books and everything in order. Oh Lord, I think I’ve got a hand. I’m not sure.

17 April 2004

Heather: Well, Mother, that is your way of telling me that we had better hang up now. (laughter) I love you, Mother.

Audrey: I love you Heather dear.
 
(Heather: I often asked Mother if her hand was tired and she would respond “Yes, but I want to talk” and then when her hand is too tired to keep talking, she would tell me.  Audrey would always end with I love you dear, so when she would say I love you Heather dear, I would feel extra special.)
24 April 2004

Heather: How are you liking your room at Alpine?

Audrey: I have the corner room here at Alpine and it is the best room here. (Alpine Staff) couldn’t be any better. Vivian (Audrey’s roommate), she is great. Vivian reminds me of Grandma.

 

8 May 2004

Heather: Hello Mother. Today is Saturday. How’s your room at Alpine?

Audrey: I have a very comfortable room. I have a three shelves bookcase with a small bookcase on top and then all my dolls (stuffed animals) on top. I have a bird feeder outside my window. Spencer put the bird feeder by the window up close.

15 May 2004

Heather: How are you doing, Mother?

Audrey Mae MacDonald and her son Vaughn Ray MacDonald at Kent Regency, Warwick, RI

Audrey: I am sleeping all the time. I feel pretty good. I finished eating now. It is as sunny as it can be. I don’t care about going out. I like sitting here and looking out the window. I’m always falling asleep. Nothing unusual. Vaughn helped me put the puzzle together of a boy eating his sandwich and the dog sitting there waiting for a bite.