Audrey Mae SpencerSpencer Historical CemeteryHenry Straight / William Spencer Family Cemetery
Vaughn Historical CemeterySpencers of East Greenwich, RI
Conversations Sequel
31 January 2005

Douglas visiting Mother at Kent Regency:

“Why don’t you take all this stuff and put it in the car and then take me home?”

(Long discussion on why she can’t go home)

31 January 2005

Douglas visiting Mother at Kent Regency asked Mother: “If there was anything in the world that you could do, what would it be?”

“Sit here holding my hand”.

(Douglas: “What’s next best?”)

“Laying in bed having people wait on me.”

(Mother pushed the button to the bathroom.  Doug had to hand it to her.)

31 January 2005

Frank Roger Cahoon

The Death of Frank Roger Cahoon

Audrey’s Grand Nephew

Born June 1, 1955

Died January 31, 2005

Roger was the grandson of Audrey’s brother, John Edward Spencer

8 February 2005

While Heather was visiting her mother at Kent Regency, Audrey says:

“Let me lay my head on your shoulder.”

17 March 2005

Heather: Do you want to go to your room or stay here by this wide window?

“No, I’m fine right here.”

17 March 2005

Heather: Mother, are you cold? (I opened the shutters and Mother opened her eyes and looked out and then shut her eyes.)

(shakes her head “no”)

18 March 2005

Heather: (Audrey’s comments on March 18th during Heather’s visit at Kent Regency)

“Take me out because I’m the first born.”

(Mike, the certified nurse aide enters the room and Audrey speaks to him)  “Hold this.  I want him to hold this.”

(Lisa Gayle comes in to Audrey’s room and Mother looks at me and says)  “Take me home.  I don’t want to lock myself in.”

(Heather: “Oh Mother, I wish I could. This is the first time in my life I really wish I had money, so I could take you home.”)

19 March 2005

Heather: Mother, let’s go to your Birthday Celebration Concert that Chuck and I have planned for you.

Audrey’s Birthday Organ Concert

Kent Regency Multipurpose Room

March 19, 2005   2 PM

Chuck McGilvray, Heather’s spouse and a Music Professional played

the songs of the early and middle twentieth century.

Family and Friends were invited.

21 March 2005

Heather: (on entering Audrey’s room, Audrey asked:)

“I’m warm enough. Are you warm?”

18 April 2005

Heather: Hello Mother, I just got off the airplane. I am so glad to see you in the lobby with the other residents.

“Stop the chair so it will not wheel away.  Sit on my lap so they wouldn’t wheel me away from you.”