Douglas visiting and feeding Mother at Kent Regency Nursing Home:
“It doesn’t taste good.”
“It doesn’t taste good.”
“I want to sit down now.”
(Marilyn said they are working with Mother five days a week.)
“Don’t put anymore of that stuff in my mouth.”
“It is too sweet and bad for my sugar”.
(Doug tried reading the 50 states postcards and getting Mother to think about the capitols but she wasn’t really into it. This was unusual as Mother was always interested in studying and learning.)
“Why am I here? I don’t want to be in this big house. I don’t want to be in this crazy house.”
(Mother was very alert. Doug and Mother, in her wheel chair, went for a stroll down to see Lisa, Audrey’s granddaughter, Lisa in the Administrative office. Lisa said she has not seen her this alert before. Lisa explained to Mother as to why Mother was in the Nursing Home.
(Mother nodded her head “yes”.)
“Why don’t you take all this stuff and put it in the car and then take me home?”
(Long discussion on why she can’t go home)
“Sit here holding my hand”.
(Douglas: “What’s next best?”)
“Laying in bed having people wait on me.”
(Mother pushed the button to the bathroom. Doug had to hand it to her.)
The Death of Frank Roger Cahoon
Audrey’s Grand Nephew
Born June 1, 1955
Died January 31, 2005
Roger was the grandson of Audrey’s brother, John Edward Spencer